Let’s talk about gifts.
One of the most challenging categories we deal with as organizers is clutter caused by unwanted gifts from loved ones. So often these well-meaning gifts immediately breed stress and anxiety. Time and time again my clients will ask, “What do I do with this? My mother bought it for me but I don’t want it.” Or “I want to donate this mug, but my best friend bought it for me and what if she looks for it the next time she comes over?”
I’m here to tell you that you do not need permission to get rid of items in your home that do not serve you. It is your home and therefore your choice as to what you keep or give away. If you do not use, want, like, or have room for an item, it does not belong in your space. Despite what you may think, your friend, Mom, boss, cousin, aunt will likely not even know you re-homed their gift. I promise.
Most gifts are given to show love or care. It is the thought behind the gift that matters, truly. And what better way to honor that thoughtfulness than to donate your gift to a good home? Many of our clients feel much better about purging unwanted items if they know their clutter will bless someone else. It is easier to let go of an item that has a sentimental attachment if we give it away to a friend, relative, church, etc. There are so many wonderful organizations as well that love to receive donations and will put your unused items to good use.
Guilt is never a good enough reason to keep unwanted items in your home. Appreciate the gift for the thought behind it, and then allow it to leave your home and free up both your physical and mental space.
